welcome to the club…

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Welcome to Hogares Club Michin. This is the orphanage where our children were housed for the past three years. Above are pics of Esmeralda and Daniela’s best friends. I brought them little rings to remember the girls by. I also brought all of the children suckers and stickers. This was a difficult excursion for me, especially. We knew that we wanted to tour the facility and grab as much information as we could for the children’s sake, but being there was still highly emotional.

The facility itself is housed in downtown Bogota on a random little street amidst bakeries, apartments and auto-mechanic shops. You would never know it was there unless you were looking for it. That is partly due to the fact that the orphanage is actually comprised of many separate structures all along a few blocks. Esmeralda and Daniela were in the same “house, ” Daniel was in another, and Juan Pablo another. They do not separate the children by gender until age six, so Juan Pablo’s class was made up of boys and girls. The rest were not. There was also a house for teenage girls, and a house for abused women.

When we drove up to the building, my heart was pricked almost instantly. We exited the taxi just as the constant drizzle of rain turned harder. Adam got a few seconds of video before we went in so you should be able to see what I mean when he posts it. I felt like I was stepping into a bad dream or movie or something. Anyway, the first house we came to was not the office, but one of the boy houses. It was sooooo loud and crazy. The caretaker was not there yet, and the boys were running wild. Of course, there was no carpeting, and nothing on the walls so everything echoed. And everything was fairly stark and cold.

Once we found out where to go, we stopped at the girls’ house first. We saw where they ate and where their rooms were. We got pictures and documented everything. We met all the girls’ friends and housemates who smothered us with hugs, kisses and compliments. They were so excited to meet Ezzy and Ella’s mommy, and they kept asking when the girls were coming back to the orphanage. But I have to say that walking outside to the back of the structure broke my heart. It was pure concrete and wires. And that is how they all were. I am thinking the kids won’t think our desert-scape in Las Vegas is half bad. :)

We met with Juan P.’s housemates in the upstairs of the girls’ house. They were there for a class or something, and his house is apparently far away. Anyway, we took a picture of them in their little smocks….absolutely adorable!!!

Daniel’s house was just as tragic, but the boys cracked us up. They also got pencils because I forgot I had them in the backpack until then. There was a picture of Danny on one of the walls, which looked a couple of years old. It was so cute, so we snapped a pic. It is the only thing we have from that long ago. He must have been six, I think. Apparently two of the boys in his house are paper-ready and just waiting for someone to want them. They actually looked like twins–but they are definitely brothers. Wynette, the social worker, says they are her favorite boys in the house. And if I had room, I would take them.

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You can see me above passing out things (the children are talking to Daniel, our translator–he’s amazing). And the three additional pictures are of the children’s class/housemates. After we toured all the houses, we went back to the main office to talk with Wynette and Jairo, the psychologist. They are sooooo amazing. Our children were given the best possible support by them–I truly believe that. And although this orphanage is in desperate need of supplies and resources, the staff truly loves the children. They were so warm and loving. And our children speak very highly of their caretakers. We spent a good 45 minutes with Jairo talking about what can be improved for future families, how we have felt the last couple of weeks, and what we can do to help improve the facility.

Also, Wynette said that if there is anyone we know now, or in the future, who would like to adopt, we can contact them and they can deal directly with the family. That way the family can choose what agency, if any, they want to work with. If we adopt from Colombia again, we will probably not use an agency, but deal directly with ICBF through a private Colombian Adoption lawyer. It is much cheaper, and doable now that we know the process. Plus, we all know what has happened with Commonwealth. I’m not ready to go through that again.

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After we finished at Michin, we went for a guided tour of CRAN–they are the facilitating foundation that our agency worked with. Once we were in direct contact with CRAN, things went much smoother. Our adoption is the first joint effort between CRAN and Michin. CRAN’S facility and programs are much better funded. CRAN is actually where we picked the children up the first day, and it is where the children would come for medical treatments and to visit us via the internet.

 Here are a few pics:

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You can really tell a difference between the two facilities (especially in the videos–adam is working on them.) Regardless, there are still too many children. And look at the last picture of the sea of semi-sleeping children. These are all of the kindergartners trying to nap after lunch before class. And the pic with me shows the holding room where the kids waited for us the day we picked them up. There are some couches on the other side of the room.

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8 Responses to welcome to the club…

  1. Jaime Lynne says:

    i know it took courage and strength to visit the orphanage today. Thank you for doing it… the children will thank you some day, too.

    And thank you, as always, for sharing!

  2. wendia says:

    Hey Rachel & Adam! Welcome to parenthood! Just found your blog…I saw ours on your sidebar…thanks for following us. I have bookmarked yours! Your children are beautiful!!! I am definitely interested in learning more about these guys, this orphanage. We are interested in adopting Colombia again…when you get home, please email us at wendiacklen@hotmail.com and let me know more about how to contact, who to contact, etc.

    God bless, Wendi

  3. So humbling. I can not imagine the feelings and thoughts you two must have had as you toured the facility. It puts me more in awe of what the children have been through.

    Can’t you just stuff the cute boys in your suitcase and bring them home for Dan and I. We’d take them. :)

  4. Gina DeMarco says:

    Looking at the photos, you just wannna say ‘okay everyone let’s go home’. Our house it already full of boys and is crazy, whats a few more ;). It is amazing the things children can live through and still be so tender and sweet. I am so happy for you guys and your little ones. Give’m hugs from their friends anxiously awaiting their arrival. Oh, yeah, we can’t wait to give you guys hugs too ;)!

  5. jenademarco says:

    wow… it is truly unbelievable what they have gone through. Dave and I were just saying that if we could, I would come back with some kids. It breaks my heart. Way to make it through it.

  6. basford family says:

    It really is hard to see and hear about. Children are the most precious gift on this earth and they all deserve a family to love them. I hope that one day I can be in the position to help whether it be to adopt or to make donations. It literally breaks my heart.

  7. Valerie says:

    WOW! That must have been tough! It is so heartbreaking! Thanks for sharing and for being so great!
    We love you guys!

    BTW You look fantastic!

  8. mb93003 says:

    Seeing all of them together in their matching smocks makes me thing of our little Taiwanese kids, but it breaks my heart to know that all those little ones don’t have a mommy and daddy to go home too! Rachel you and Adam are truly amazing and I know that you will be blessed for your willingness to welcome these 4 little ones into your hearts and home. Thank you for sharing your joys and your difficulties throughout this whole process. You are doing the right thing by being firm but loving with them. They need that structure in their lives and I know it will get easier, there are moments when I feel like I want to just give up but the joys my girls bring sustain me through the hard times and I know it will be the same for you!

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